David Rust

For many gay men, porn becomes an early, often unspoken source of sex education. In the absence of affirming or inclusive information growing up, it’s common to turn to porn to understand identity, desire, and what gay sex is “supposed” to look like. And while porn can feel validating or exciting in some ways, it presents a carefully constructed fantasy, not a model for real connection or intimacy. Over time, these images can shape how people feel about their bodies, how they show up with...

When people think about PTSD, they often picture war zones or catastrophic events. But for many LGBTQIA+ individuals, trauma doesn’t come from a single moment. It comes from years of living in a world that too often feels unsafe, invalidating, or outright hostile. At Rust Wellness Group, we work with queer clients navigating this kind of trauma every day. You deserve care that not only understands PTSD but also sees how your identity and lived experience shape the way trauma shows up in your...

For many gay men, conversations about mental health often overlap with substance use, especially when party drugs are involved. A term that comes up in these conversations is chemsex , which refers to using drugs like meth, GHB, or ecstasy in sexual settings. While not every gay man uses substances, party drugs have become closely tied to queer nightlife, hookup culture, and intimacy. But this isn’t just about partying. Often, it reflects deeper needs, like the search for connection, relief...